Yes, Smithy from Gavin & Stacey is now the host of a late-night talk-show on CBS. Not bad for someone who was once a very public victim of bullying...
Tango ad 2000 starring James Cordon
Later banned because it encouraged bullying
(Which isn't a surprise for Tango)
Looking at his career (in the form of his Wikipedia page) its incredible how high he has reached in a decade since that public humiliation during the ad breaks for TFI Friday (or any other TV show on commercial TV when this ad was on air). In the ironically-titled Fat Friends James played another victim of bullying who was almost pushed to suicide. After moving school in 2004, he became a star pupil in Alan Bennett's The History Boys. After graduating he did a few bit parts in a few movies, until meeting up again with former Fat Friend Ruth Jones. In 2007 this meeting resulted in the hit sitcom Gavin & Stacey - the show that truly made James a star. After that James has enjoyed amazing success.... well except for his brief folly with Gavin (Mathew Horne) that led to a TV sketch show and a movie (which I have both seen in their entirety and liked, despite what the critics (plus the majority of people) say about them). Even stuff that is dismissed by most have merit.
But even with his huge success in the UK, I was very genuinely surprised when I found out that James had become a talk-show host in America. I never knew that he won a Tony Award for the Broadway production of the successful One Man, Two Guvnors. I knew he was in a Disney movie recently, but still - Smithy on CBS chatting with Tom Hanks and Mila Kunis? Wow!
I only learnt of this fact thanks to someone posting this clip to my Facebook page.
Tom Hanks and James Corden do every Tome Hanks movie in 7 minutes
From The Late Late Show With James Corden (2015)
I am more glad that I have started using Facebook now since I started back in October.
But there is something significant that can be learned from James Corden's story, and its something I have noticed for years. A noticeable number of celebrities have said in interviews that in the past they have been victims of bullying (I can't say that this is really true for James Corden, as I was just playing around with his early performance in a TV ad). And form this fact I can safely conclude that if a child is a victim of bullying that child's chances of future success increases. And this idea has backing. Derren Brown (a former victim himself) talks about this in his live shows.
Its down to the fact that the bully is usually a kid who has the most natural strength (physically and in attracting "friends") and could go through school without much friction. Such kids never really "try hard" at school. As a result, most bullies have "dull" adulthoods.
Meanwhile, the victims, because they experience friction at school (due to bullying or factors that usually lead to a child been bullied, or both) do try harder ... and reap the rewards in adulthood (unless the bullying leads to something that'll cut down that person's life before that happens).
Reading this, I can imagine that some kids will try to get themselves bullied on purpose to try to guarantee future success.
For those kids (or parents pushing their kids to do so), it won't work.
Engineered bullying is not the same as natural bullying.
Don't believe me? Just watch this episode of American Dad!
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